11.29.2011

If You Blog It They Will Come



It has been a little over a month since I since TAH blog was born, and I have to say, it has been a lot of fun.  I am only the vessel though which TAH blog speaks and speaks it has.  There is so much that has written and learned and so much more to be written or not.  I still don't know where TAH blog is going, but the ride so far has been dy-no-mite!  I love my life because it is such an adventure and something always happens that results in a subject for me to dish about.
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11.28.2011

Spiritual Accounting 101



Know your worth.  When I worked for an real estate firm many years ago, the COO gave me some of the best advise I held on to for years.  He told me that whenever I went into a room to negotiate a deal, pretend that I had $1 million in the in the bank.  At the time, I thought it was a pretty cool trick that actually worked, because it was a mental psych out.  Nowadays, there is no need for me to follow this advice, because I understand he was really talking about knowing my worth.  In other words, whatever we contribute has value.  Oprah helps billions so she makes billions, this is the balance of life.  It's not about the money because the balance comes in different ways.  The agreements are soul agreements and debts are always paid off.  There is no grace period, no interest rates, and no deadlines.  At the end of the day, the books must be balanced.
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11.22.2011

Thanksgiving Address...



I walk in gratitude all day, everyday.  I say thank you so much I don't even have a count, so for me everyday is Thanksgiving.  Most of us don't even know the origin of Thanksgiving or understand the broader meaning of it in the world.  We just do the usual rituals without much awareness.  The Onondaga Nation (Native Americans who reside in Central New York) have a Thanksgiving Address or  “The Words That Come Before All Else,” that they do before every gathering.   This address is their reminder of who they are and their standing in the broader sense of the world. This is the very humbling, short version.


So before you go off and eat that turkey with all the fixings, read this to remind yourself that your family is extended well beyond the people sitting around your table or the ones you hold near to your heart... Remember, you are one with all, and all is one with you... even if you don't recognize it.

The People
Today we have gathered and we see that the cycles of life continue. We have been given the duty to live in balance and harmony with each other and all living things. So now, we bring our minds together as one as we give greetings and thanks to each other as People.
Now our minds are one.

The Earth Mother
We are all thankful to our Mother, the Earth, for she gives us all that we need for life. She supports our feet as we walk about upon her. It gives us joy that she continues to care for us as she has from the beginning of time. To our Mother, we send greetings and thanks.
Now our minds are one

The Waters
We give thanks to all the Waters of the world for quenching our thirst and providing us with strength. Water is life. We know its power in many forms-- waterfalls and rain, mists and streams, rivers and oceans. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to the spirit Water.
Now our minds are one.

The Fish
We turn our minds to all the Fish life in the water. They were instructed to cleanse and purify the water. They also give themselves to us as food. We are grateful that we can still find pure water. So, we turn now to the fish and send our greetings and thanks.
Now our minds are one.

The Plants
Now we turn towards the vast fields of Plant life. As far as the eye can see, the Plants grow, working many wonders. They sustain many life forms. With our minds gathered together, we give thanks and look forward to seeing Plant life for many generations to come.
Now our minds are one.

The Food Plants
With one mind, we turn to honor and thank all the Food Plants we harvest from the garden. Since the beginning of time, the grains, vegetables, beans and berries have helped the people survive. Many other living things draw strength from them too. We gather all the Plant Foods together as one and send them a greeting and thanks.
Now our minds are one.

The Medicine Herbs
Now we turn to all the Medicine Herbs of the world. From the beginning, they were instructed to take away sickness. They are always waiting and ready to heal us. We are happy there are still among us those special few who remember how to use these plants for healing. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to the Medicines and to the keepers of the Medicines
Now our minds are one.

The Animals
We gather our minds together to send greetings and thanks to all the Animal life in the world. They have many things to teach us as people. We see them near our homes and in the deep forests. We are glad they are still here and we hope that it will always be so.
Now our minds are one

The Trees
We now turn our thoughts to the Trees. The Earth has many families of Trees who have their own instructions and uses. Some provide us with shelter and shade, other with fruit, beauty and other useful things. Many peoples of the world use a Tree as a symbol of peace and strength. With one mind, we greet and thank the tree of life.
Now our minds are one

The Birds
We put our minds together as one and thank all the Birds who move and fly about over our heads. The Creator gave them beautiful songs. Each day they remind us to enjoy and appreciate life. The Eagle was chosen to be their leader. To all the Birds-- from the smallest to the largest--we send our joyful greetings and thanks.
Now our minds are one

The Four Winds
We are all thankful to the powers we know as the Four Winds. We hear their voices in the moving air as they refresh us and purify the air we breathe. They help to bring the change of seasons. From the four directions they come, bringing us messengers and giving us strength. With one mind, we send our greetings and thanks to the Four Winds.
Now our minds are one

The Thunders
Now we turn to the west where our Grandfathers, the Thunder Beings, live. With lightening and thundering voices, they bring with them the water that renews life. We bring our minds together as one to send greetings and thanks to our Grandfathers, the Thunders.
Now our minds are one.

The Sun
We now send the greetings and thanks to our eldest Brother, the Sun. Each day without fail he travels the sky from east to west, bringing the light of a new day. He is the source of all the fires of life. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to our Brother, the Sun.
Now our minds are one.

Grandmother Moon
We put our minds together and give thanks to our oldest Grandmother, the Moon, who lights the nighttime sky. She is the leader of women all over the world, and she governs the movement of the ocean tides. By her changing face we measure time, and it is the Moon who watches over the arrival of children here on Earth. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to our Grandmother, the Moon.
Now our minds are one.

The Stars
We give thanks to the Stars who are spread across the sky like jewelry. We see them in the night, helping the Moon to light the darkness and bringing dew to the gardens and growing things. When we travel at night, they guide us home. With our minds gathered together as one, we send greetings and thanks to all the Stars.
Now our minds are one.

The Enlightened Teachers
We gather our minds to greet and thank the enlightened Teachers who have come to help throughout the ages. When we forget how to live in harmony, they remind us of the way we were instructed to live as people. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to these caring Teachers.
Now our minds are one.

The Creator
We turn our thoughts to the Creator, or Great Spirit, and send greetings and thanks for all the gifts of Creation. Everything we need to live a good life is here on this Mother Earth. For all the love that is still around us, we gather our minds together as one and send our choicest words of greetings and thanks to the Creator.
Now our minds are one.

Closing Words
We have now arrived at the place where we end our words. Of all the things we have named, it was not our intent to leave anything out. If something was forgotten, we leave it to each individual to send such greetings and thanks in their own way.
Now our minds are one.

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11.14.2011

Happiness: Use as Directed


Lately I've been noticing that the state of happiness seems to becoming a package product, "5 Steps to Happiness," "The Happier You," "What Happy People Do That You Don't..." etc, etc, etc.  It has all become part of the internet noise in some respect.  Even on a recent episode of House, a patient's "state of happiness" was questioned when House decided that his "happiness" was in fact a "symptom" that something was gravely wrong with the man.  But what is happiness?  The definition seems to be very illusive yet many of us are in constant pursuit of it.  Most would concede that money doesn't by happiness but then how does one attain such a state?  Is it really reachable by going through the "5 Steps to Happiness" list in a magazine? Does it even exist?  Isn't it just a temporary thing?  It seems like the very people who are talking about it are usually not the ones who have actually uncovered it, because if they had, the message would be basically the same, HAPPINESS IS ALREADY WITHIN YOU.  But maybe that sounds just too easy, too hard or too esoteric, for most.  Look, I know most people like to be told what to do, but The Arty Hobo don't do leashes.
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11.13.2011

The Humor in Life [Fiction]




As I sat in front of the television to suck in the current state of the world...
“Girl, you better get out the way! Your daddy’s sperm ain’t made outta glass,”
She said, the cigarette smoke escaping out of her mouth in a cloudy puff.

As I half listened, I wondered what my daddy’s sperm had to do with anything?
Doesn’t she know I was bound to come out the way I am because I willed it?
And why did she have to infuse every line with, “Girl,”
Or put her hand on her hip to make point, like her mama?
Doesn’t she have an expression of her own?
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11.11.2011

Plan B




The other night I went to a discussion about public relations.  I won’t say who the person was but during the event the PR guy talked about Steve Jobs and how he never saw such an outpouring response to a passing of a business person. He went on to say, however, he thought that Steve Job’s over all message to young people, to find their own way to do what they love, was wrong.  Yes, he admitted that he had found a career that he loved, but that he hadn’t seen many geniuses in his day like Jobs.  He stated that everyone could not be a Steve Jobs (I wasn’t aware that Steve Jobs said he wanted everyone to be him. I must have missed that Apple commercial.), and that most people at some point needed a Plan B.  I am always curious about a person who says, "I have achieved x-y-z but you probably won’t, so you will need a Plan B."  Huh?  And maybe the reason PR guy hadn’t seen many "geniuses" in his day, was because so many people are Plan B people and not Plan A people.  Hmmmm.  This made me think about Plan B and what actually happens on this highly touted, "fail safe" route.  
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11.09.2011

Persistently Patient

Source: http://www.portwallpaper.com/image/32301-waiting-on-the-bench.html



Patience.
I thought I was a patient person until I embarked on this life altering journey and
I had to relearn the meaning of patience.  
My old meaning had lots of conditions.
I would be patient until I got tired of being patient.
I will be patient until it looked like patience wasn't working.
Can you sit beyond that feeling, that unnerving feeling that something is wrong, off, etc?
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11.08.2011

A Thousand Ways to Skin a Cat



Over the years, I’ve been asked by a few people about the best way to go about the writing process, and I always answer, “The best way is your way.” There is no right or wrong way, every writer must develop his own writing style and creative process in her own time.  Now, there was a time when I attempted to emulate other writers.  In fact, I tried things like index cards, summaries, long hand, but I realized that being a writer had nothing to do with these things.  That's when I started to let go and really hone in on my skills (which are still evolving).  The thing is, scribes must learn that every project has different needs and therefore must be approached accordingly.
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11.04.2011

The Falsity of Prophecy

Source: http://www.elfwood.com/~knaupp/The-Fortune-Teller.2920068.html

In film, as in literature, there is a protagonist, a main character, who must face and resolve a conflict in order to get what he or she seeks, the "Holy Grail" so the speak.  The climax of the story is usually proceeded by a series of tests to prepare the protagonist for the main conflict or the showdown. This is our journey, the journey of woman and man or, as Joseph Campbell put it ever so eloquently, the hero's journey.   During our lifetime, we are born with and acquire tools to aid us, like the sword and shield of legend.  One of my tools, as a writer, is the laptop (aka Apple), one of the few "possessions" that has not escaped me.  I carry Apple, in a messenger bag, a"sheath" slung across my hip, and yes, the pen (err, cursor) is mightier.   Like in the stories of lore, people come into our lives to challenge us, they are the administers of the test, and they play many roles, such as, the false prophet.
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11.02.2011

Express Yourself, Don't Repress Yourself





I have slowly stripped off my reluctance of being active in the cyber-sphere and actually embrace it. It first started when I joined Facebook back in 2008, which made it possible to reconnect with people from high school and college. Now I use it as a way to bring light to the lives of the people around me. Then I joined Twitter, which I really didn't get for the life of me, again I choose to use it, as I now use Facebook, for a higher purpose. And now, to complete the trifecta, I write a blog, which (and I never thought I'd say this) is actually a pretty interesting thing, as a writer. I'm not sure what the blog is or what it will become (to me it all a learning process), but I've decided to stick to what I know and to use examples from my own life. I'm not into spreading gossip or talking about people, that is just not a part of my vibe. I don't put names or pictures of other people in my life past or present because it is not my job to make their private lives public.
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11.01.2011

Put Down the Gun...



blowback /ˈblōˌbak/ n. Powder residue that is released upon automatic ejection of a spent cartridge or shell from a firearm.


Recently, at the Syracuse International Film Festival, I had the pleasure of watching a documentary called DOLPHIN BOY by directors, Dani Menkin and Yonatan Nir.  The film's subject suffers though a psychosis seemingly caused by a severe beating which, at the point when the films opens, has manifested into a physical handicap rendering the man, literally, speechless. This inability to talk, baffles his doctor who has tried every therapy known to the psychiatric world.  As a last resort, the doctor decides to try an "experimental" method of treatment and introduces the man to dolphin therapy, a practice in which people swim with dolphins for therapeutic reasons.   I have actually swam with dolphins in Florida and I can say there is a wisdom in their presence, like with the deer (see Conceal Me What I Am post), which is awe inspiring.  As I watched the film, I realized I had a very personal understanding of this man's journey on so many levels, he suffered from what I call "emotional blowback" and it so happens, I know something about this.
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